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[[File:Sinatra family 1949.jpg|thumb|upright=1.3|alt=Photo family portrait of a husband, wife, two young children, and an infant.|Sinatra in a 1949 family portrait with his first wife, Nancy Barbato, and their three children.]]
'''[[Frank Sinatra]]''' had many close relationships throughout his life. He was married four times and had at least six other notable relationships in between. He had three verified children, as well as more than one of questionable paternity.
==Marriages==
===Nancy Barbato===
[[File:Frank Sinatra and Nancy Barbato at Ciro`s, 1949.jpg|thumb|Frank Sinatra and Nancy Barbato at ''[[Ciro's]]'', 1949]]
Frank Sinatra met Nancy Barbato (1917–2018) in the summer of 1934,{{sfn|Santopietro|2008|p=37}} and they married on February 4, 1939, in [[Jersey City, New Jersey]], Barbato's home town.<ref>''The Rough Guide to Frank Sinatra'', Chris Ingham, pg 9</ref> The wedding was held at Our Lady of Sorrows Church at 93 Clerk Street, after which the newlyweds lived in an apartment house at 137 Bergen Avenue. Their first child, [[Nancy Sinatra]], was born on June 8, 1940, and their son, Francis Wayne Sinatra, known as [[Frank Sinatra Jr.]], was born on January 10, 1944. Both were born at the [[Frank Hague#President maker|Margaret Hague Hospital]] in Jersey City.<ref>[http://www.cityofjerseycity.org/sinatra.shtml "Frank Sinatra's Jersey City Connection"], CityofJerseyCity.org. Accessed June 30, 2008.</ref>
Following the family's move to Hollywood, Sinatra began engaging in extramarital affairs, the first known with [[Marilyn Maxwell]]. These affairs also became public knowledge and caused great embarrassment to Nancy Barbato Sinatra, who considered calling off their marriage then and had an abortion when she became pregnant in 1946.<ref>Ingham, pg 10, as related in Tina Sinatra's memoir</ref> A third child, [[Tina Sinatra|Christina Sinatra]], known as "Tina", was born on June 20, 1948.
The couple announced their separation on [[Valentine's Day]], February 14, 1950, with Sinatra's additional extramarital affair with [[Ava Gardner]] compounding his transgressions and becoming public knowledge. After originally just seeking a [[legal separation]], Frank and Nancy Sinatra decided some months later to file for divorce, and this divorce became final on October 29, 1951. Frank Sinatra's affair and relationship with Gardner had become more serious, and she later became his second wife.
Less widely known were Sinatra's continuing visits, his long, confiding late-night phone calls, and the convivial family dinners on birthdays, holidays and other occasions. "Throughout the many years after they split, my grandfather came to visit whenever his crazy life would allow it," Mrs. Sinatra's granddaughter A. J. Lambert wrote in a 2015 remembrance in ''Vanity Fair''. "I can remember times when she would be on the phone with her ex-husband, and the next thing I knew some eggplant was coming out of the freezer to thaw so that she could make him some sandwiches when he showed up." She remained profoundly private, uttering barely a word in public about her life with Sinatra, though their mutual feelings were clear, her granddaughter recalled, to those who knew them best.<ref name="Barbatodeath">{{cite news |url=https://www.nytimes.com/2018/07/14/obituaries/nancy-barbato-sinatra-dead.html|title=Nancy Barbato Sinatra, 101, an Idol's First Wife and Lasting Confidante, Dies|author=Margalit Fox|work=[[The New York Times]]|date=July 14, 2018}}</ref>
"I know he never stopped loving her," Lambert wrote. "And I know she never stopped loving him."<ref name="Barbatodeath"/>
Nancy Barbato Sinatra died in 2018 at the age of 101. She never remarried and had outlived not only her ex-husband but also her son Frank Jr., who died in 2016.<ref>{{cite news|url=https://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2018/07/nancy_sinatra_sr_jersey_city_native_and_former_wif.html|title=Nancy Sinatra Sr., Jersey City native and former wife of Frank Sinatra, dies at 101|last=McDonald|first=Corey W.|date=14 July 2018|publisher=[[NJ.com]]|access-date=14 July 2018}}</ref>
===Ava Gardner===
[[File:Eiganotomo-avagardner-dec1953.jpg|thumb|right|[[Ava Gardner]], Sinatra's wife from 1951 to 1957]]
Biographer [[Kitty Kelley]] claims that Sinatra had first seen photographs of [[Ava Gardner]] in a magazine and had sworn that he would marry her. Ruth Rosenthal, a friend of Gardner's, stated that Gardner initially detested him upon meeting him at MGM, finding him to be "conceited, arrogant and overpowering". Their similarities, however, from vices like smoking, drinking hard liquor and cursing, to their volatile tempers and love of violent sports, soon became apparent.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=155}} Sinatra separated from Nancy on Valentine's Day 1950, after he confessed to his passionate affair with Gardner, and she subsequently locked him out of the house and hired a lawyer.{{Sfn|Kelley|1986|p=162}} Although Nancy initially refused to divorce him, Sinatra was eventually granted a divorce in Nevada in October 1951, and subsequently obtained a marriage license in Pennsylvania, marrying Gardner in a small ceremony on November 7, 1951.{{Sfn|Kelley|1986|pp=189-91}} Following a turbulent marriage, with many well-publicized fights and altercations {{Sfn|Kelley|1986|p=202}} and an abortion in November 1952,{{sfn|Santopietro|2008|p=133}} the couple formally announced their separation October 29, 1953 through MGM.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=229}}
Gardner filed for divorce in June 1954, at a time when she was dating matador [[Luis Miguel Dominguín]], but the divorce was not settled until July 1957.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=239}} Sinatra blamed [[Peter Lawford]], who had dated Gardner before, for the split, and it took six years for Sinatra to forgive him. He was inconsolable in the fall of 1953 after the split, and according to Kelley, on November 18, [[Jimmy Van Heusen]] found him in the elevator of his 57th Street apartment with his wrists slashed.{{efn|Kelley states that this was covered up by his representatives who told the press he had been admitted to hospital, suffering from "complete physical exhaustion, severe loss of weight, and a tremendous amount of emotional strain", and that he had simply had an accident with a broken glass.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=208}}}}{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=230}} After the divorce, Sinatra continued to feel very strongly for Gardner and they remained friends for life. Additionally, Sinatra took responsibility for Gardner's business affairs long after the split, and was still dealing with her finances in 1976.{{Sfn|Kelley|1986|p=486}} When she fell into ill health in later years, Sinatra paid $50,000 towards her medical bills.{{sfn|Santopietro|2008|p=119}} Gardner's power in Hollywood helped Sinatra get cast in ''[[From Here to Eternity]]'' (1953) and his subsequent [[Academy Award for Best Supporting Actor]] helped revitalize Sinatra's film career.<ref>Ingham, pg41</ref>
===Mia Farrow===
Sinatra married actress [[Mia Farrow]] on July 19, 1966, when she was 21 and he was 50. At the time, Sinatra was enjoying a wave of renewed popularity as the song "[[Strangers in the Night]]" returned him to the top of the ''Billboard'' charts only seventeen days later. They met on the set of Sinatra's film ''[[Von Ryan's Express]]''.<ref>Ingham, p. 80</ref> She agreed to appear in his 1968 film ''[[The Detective (1968 film)|The Detective]]'', but when she reneged as her filming schedule for ''[[Rosemary's Baby (film)|Rosemary's Baby]]'' overran, Sinatra served her divorce papers in front of the cast and crew.<ref>Ingham, p. 81</ref> They were divorced in Mexico in August 1968. In an interview for the November 2013 issue of ''Vanity Fair'', Farrow said that she and Sinatra "never really split up" and answered "possibly" when asked if her son [[Ronan Farrow|Ronan]] might be Sinatra's.<ref name="vanityfair.com">[http://www.vanityfair.com/online/daily/2013/10/mia-farrow-children-family-scandal "Exclusive: Mia Farrow and Eight of Her Children Speak Out on Their Lives, Frank Sinatra, and the Scandals They've Endured"] {{webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20131031041558/http://www.vanityfair.com/online/daily/2013/10/mia-farrow-children-family-scandal |date=2013-10-31 }}. ''Vanity Fair''. October 2, 2013.</ref>
===Barbara Marx===
On July 11, 1976, Sinatra married [[Barbara Sinatra|Barbara Marx]] (formerly married to [[Zeppo Marx]], the straight man in the [[Marx Brothers|Marx brothers']] act<ref>Nash, Eric P. [https://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9507E4D61531F93BA25751C0A9679C8B63 "Books in Brief: Nonfiction"], ''[[The New York Times]]'', February 18, 2001. Accessed January 7, 2008. "Sinatra's last wife, Barbara Marx, who had been married to Zeppo, ''the unfunny Marx brother,'' is depicted as the wicked stepmother, isolating the aging star from friends and family, persuading him to change his will and failing to notify the children in his last hours."</ref>), who converted to Catholicism to marry him. She remained his wife until his death, although her relations with Sinatra's children were consistently portrayed as stormy, something [[Nancy Sinatra]] confirmed when she publicly claimed that Barbara had not bothered to call Frank's children even when the end was near, although they were close by, and the children missed the opportunity to be at their father's bedside when he died.<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://www.contactmusic.com/news-article/nancy-sinatra-blames-final-wife-for-dad-franks-death|title=Nancy Sinatra Blames Final Wife For Dad Frank's Death|date=March 27, 2005|website=Contactmusic.com}}</ref>
In 2021, someone vandalised Sinatra's grave marker, attempting to chisel away the word "husband". The damaged marker was replaced with a new one with the words, "Sleep warm, poppa", the same words that his daughter Tina had buried with him.<ref>{{ cite web | url=https://www.palmspringslife.com/frank-sinatra-grave/| title=The Mystery of Frank Sinatra's Grave | date=April 26, 2021| website=Palm Springs Life - Palm Springs California}}</ref>
==Relationships==
Sinatra had numerous extramarital affairs, the first of which was with blonde starlet Alora Gooding from October 1940 while in Hollywood, his "first big love away from home", according to Nick Sevano.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|pp=62-3}} Next followed Rita Maritt, a 16-year-old [[Long Island]] debutante; the daughter of an oil baron; and Mary Lou Watts, a wealthy socialite.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|pp=63-4}} Gossip magazines published details of affairs with the likes of [[Lana Turner]] and [[Marilyn Maxwell]].{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=127}}
===Lana Turner===
Summers and Swan claimed that Turner had gushed of a "very serious affair" between the two, and that they had only faked splitting up their relationship to oblige to MGM's concerns.{{sfn|Summers|Swan|2010|p=144}} Turner later denied the claims in her [[Lana: The Lady, the Legend, the Truth|1982 autobiography]], saying that "the closest things to dates Frank and I enjoyed were a few box lunches at MGM".{{Sfn|Summers|Swan|2010|p=157}}
===Judy Garland===
[[File:Frank Sinatra & Judy Garland on CBS Radio.jpg|thumb|alt=Photograph of a man with his arm wrapped around a woman, both in front of a microphone|Promotional photo of Sinatra and Garland on a 1944 episode of ''[[The Frank Sinatra Show (radio program)|The Frank Sinatra Show]]'' on [[CBS Radio]]]]
Sinatra and [[Judy Garland]] remained good friends until her death in 1969, but on only two occasions were the two legendary singers romantically involved. The first was in 1949, when Garland was recovering from a nervous breakdown and the two went on a romantic rendezvous in the Hamptons (Garland was still married to director [[Vincente Minnelli]]). The second was during one of Garland's many separations from her third husband [[Sid Luft]] in 1955. Sinatra had just come off his messy separation from Ava Gardner and was spotted in Garland's company until Luft found out.{{Citation needed|date=June 2012}}
===Lauren Bacall===
Sinatra was very close to [[Lauren Bacall]]. According to Kelley, her husband [[Humphrey Bogart]] believed that Sinatra was in love with Bacall and failed to attend the Sands on Bacall's 32nd birthday out of jealousy, though the two men were on good terms.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=265-68}} Sinatra and Bacall were frequently seen together in public throughout 1957, and on March 11, 1958, they reportedly became engaged, though Sinatra denied intending to marry her.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=276}}
===Juliet Prowse===
Sinatra was also engaged to [[India]]-born South African actress and dancer [[Juliet Prowse]] for a short while from fall 1961 to early 1962, before Sinatra broke the engagement late that year because Prowse refused to give up her career. The two first met on the set of the 1960 film ''[[Can-Can (film)|Can-Can]]''.<ref>{{cite news|title=Frank Sinatra: his wives and girlfriends in pictures|url=https://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/culturepicturegalleries/10353095/Frank-Sinatras-wives-and-lovers-in-pictures.html?frame=2691534|work=Daily Telegraph}}</ref>
===Marilyn Monroe ===
Sinatra met [[Marilyn Monroe]] in 1954 (while he was still married to Ava Gardner, although some sources say that Sinatra and Monroe first met several years earlier) and was a friend of Monroe's second husband [[Joe DiMaggio]], and after DiMaggio and Monroe divorced, he joined his friend DiMaggio and the writer [[James Bacon (author)|James Bacon]] on a raid set up by DiMaggio himself in pursuit of his ex-wife (Monroe) and her lover [[Hal Schaefer]], and instead of raiding their apartment, they raided the apartment of another woman, whose name was Florence Kotz.{{Citation needed|date=June 2012}} In summer of 1961, Sinatra saw Monroe again and began an affair with her, and Monroe talked about marrying Sinatra, but Sinatra broke off the affair in fall of 1961 (around the same time he saw Juliet Prowse),{{Citation needed|date=June 2012}}
===Angie Dickinson===
Sinatra was romantically involved with [[Angie Dickinson]] off and on for ten years from around 1954 to 1964. "We had an incredible 'like' for each other" and "a very comfortable relationship", stated Dickinson in 1999, adding that if they'd had "a burning love affair" then the romance might not have lasted as long.{{Citation needed|date=June 2012}} The two remained friends until Sinatra's death in 1998.
==Children==
Sinatra had three children with his first wife, Nancy Barbato: [[Nancy Sinatra]] (born June 8, 1940), [[Frank Sinatra Jr.]] (January 10, 1944 – March 16, 2016), and [[Tina Sinatra|Christina "Tina" Sinatra]] (born June 20, 1948). Although Sinatra did not remain faithful to his wife, he was by many accounts a devoted father.
On December 8, 1963, [[Frank Sinatra Jr.]] was [[List of famous kidnappings|kidnapped]].<ref name="jr_kidnapping">{{cite news|last=Allen|first=Mike|title=Man who stole Sinatra|url=http://www.roanoke.com/news/roanoke/wb/65576|access-date=29 September 2010|newspaper=The Roanoke Times|date=18 May 2006|url-status=dead|archive-url=https://archive.today/20130202044029/http://www.roanoke.com/news/roanoke/wb/65576|archive-date=2 February 2013}}</ref> Sinatra paid the kidnappers' $240,000 ransom demand (even offering $1,000,000, although the kidnappers bizarrely turned down this offer), and his son was released unharmed on December 10. (In 2022 terms, the demand would be the equivalent of $2.32 million,<ref>{{Cite web |title=$240,000 in 1963 → 2022 {{!}} Inflation Calculator |url=https://www.in2013dollars.com/us/inflation/1963?amount=240000 |access-date=2022-09-05 |website=www.in2013dollars.com |language=en}}</ref> and the amount Sinatra offered would be equivalent to $9.68 million.<ref>{{Cite web |title=$1,000,000 in 1963 → 2022 {{!}} Inflation Calculator |url=https://www.in2013dollars.com/us/inflation/1963?amount=1000000 |access-date=2022-09-05 |website=www.in2013dollars.com |language=en}}</ref>) Because the kidnappers demanded that Sinatra call them only from [[pay phone]]s, Sinatra carried a roll of [[Dime (United States coin)|dimes]] with him throughout the ordeal, and this became a lifelong habit. The kidnappers were subsequently apprehended and convicted.<ref name="jr_kidnapping" /> A 2003 movie called ''[[Stealing Sinatra]]'' was made about the incident. The radio program ''[[This American Life]]'' interviewed one of the kidnappers, [[Barry Keenan]], in the 2002 episode "Plan B".<ref>{{cite web | url=http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/205/plan-b | title=205: Plan B | publisher=[[This American Life]] | date=February 1, 2002 | access-date=May 1, 2016}}</ref>
Julie Sinatra (born Julie Ann Maria Lyma on February 10, 1943) claims to be Sinatra's daughter through an unacknowledged affair that he had with a showgirl, Dorothy Bunocelli, in the 1940s. She legally changed her last name to Sinatra in 2000.<ref name="Interview with Julie Sinatra">http://www.dougiethompson.com/frank-sinatra.htm Interview with Julie Sinatra</ref> Awarded $100,000 by the Sinatra estate in 2002,<ref name="Interview with Julie Sinatra"/> elements of her story concerning her mother's trip to Cuba with Sinatra have been disputed.<ref>{{Cite web|url=http://www.contactmusic.com/news.nsf/article/sinatra%20biographers%20question%20new%20lovechild%20claims_1004038|title=Sinatra Biographers Question New Lovechild Claims &#124; Contactmusic.com}}</ref>
Actress [[Eva Bartok]] claimed that her daughter Deana's biological father was Frank Sinatra, with whom she had a brief affair in 1956.<ref name="ct940817">{{cite news|work=[[Chicago Tribune]] |title=British woman, 36, claims she is Sinatra's daughter|page=2|url=https://pqasb.pqarchiver.com/chicagotribune/access/24120284.html?dids=24120284:24120284&FMT=ABS&FMTS=ABS:FT|archive-url=https://archive.today/20130104100420/http://pqasb.pqarchiver.com/chicagotribune/access/24120284.html?dids=24120284:24120284&FMT=ABS&FMTS=ABS:FT|url-status=dead|archive-date=January 4, 2013|date=17 August 1994|access-date=29 April 2012}}</ref>
In an interview for the November 2013 issue of ''Vanity Fair'', Mia Farrow said that she and Sinatra "never really split up" and answered "possibly" when asked if her son [[Ronan Farrow]] might be Sinatra's.<ref name="vanityfair.com" />
==Personality==
[[File:Frank Sinatra in 1957.jpg|thumb|right|Sinatra in 1957]]
In his spare time, Sinatra enjoyed listening to classical music, and would attend concerts when he could.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=92}} He also liked opera, particularly [[Luciano Pavarotti]], and told himself, "I'm just a wop baritone. This guy can really sing".{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=Introduction xii}} In return, music critic [[Henry Pleasants (music critic)|Henry Pleasants]] said that he had rarely interviewed an opera singer who did not have a collection of Sinatra's recordings.{{sfn|Lees|1998|pp=91-92}} Jo-Caroll Dennison commented that Sinatra had "great inner strength", and that his energy and drive was "enormous". {{sfn|Summers|Swan|2010|p=151}} A workaholic, he reportedly only slept for four hours a night on average.{{sfn|Santopietro|2008|p=16}} Rojek considers him to have been an "overtly sexual performer, caressing the microphone and standing in a suggestive manner".{{Sfn|Rojek|2004|p=31}} Impeccable with his dress{{efn|Sinatra always dressed immaculately, both in his professional and private life. He believed that as he was the best, he had to give his best to the audience, and would wear expensive custom-tailored tuxedos on stage as a sign of respect and to look important.{{sfn|Santopietro|2008|p=53}}}} and cleanliness, while with the Tommy Dorsey band he developed the nickname "Lady Macbeth", because of frequent showering and switching his outfits.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=59}} He enjoyed golf, and would often play with golf champion [[Ken Venturi]] at the course in Palm Springs, where he lived.{{sfn|Sinatra|1986|p=242}}
Throughout his life, Sinatra had mood swings and bouts of mild to severe [[Depression (mood)|depression]],{{sfn|Sinatra|Coplon|2000|p=47}} admitting to an interviewer in the 1950s that "I have an over-acute capacity for sadness as well as elation".{{sfn|Summers|Swan|2010|p=218}} Avoiding solitude and unglamorous surroundings at all costs, he struggled with the conflicting need "to get away from it all, but not too far away."{{sfn|Kaplan|2011|p=485}} [[Anthony Quinn]] once stated that he had a "cruel streak in his personality", but that he still loved him as he was "what all men are and not one man in a million ever is".{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=321-22}} Sinatra's mood swings often developed into violence, directed at people he felt had crossed him, particularly journalists who gave him scathing reviews, publicists and photographers. He received negative press for fights with Lee Mortimer in 1947, photographer Eddie Schisser in [[Houston]] in 1950, and Judy Garland's publicist [[Jim Byron]] in 1954, whom he reportedly referred to as a "fucking parasite".{{sfn|Kelley|1986|pp=249-50}} Yet Sinatra was known for his generosity, particularly after his comeback. When [[Lee J. Cobb]] nearly died from a heart attack in June 1955, Sinatra flooded him with "books, flowers, delicacies", paid his hospital bills, and visited him daily, telling him that his finest acting was yet to come.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|pp=251-52}} In another instance, after a heated argument with manager Bobby Burns, rather than apologize, Sinatra bought him a brand-new [[Cadillac]].{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=53}}
In a 1963 interview with ''[[Playboy]]'' magazine, Sinatra stated that his belief in God was similar to [[Albert Schweitzer]], [[Bertrand Russell#Views on religion|Bertrand Russell]] and [[Albert Einstein's religious views|Albert Einstein]] in that he had a "respect for life&nbsp;– in any form", but did not believe in "a personal God to whom I look for comfort or for a natural on the next roll of the dice".<ref name=religion>{{cite news|url=http://sinatrafamily.com/forum/showthread.php/29275-Frank-Sinatra-s-1963-Playboy-Magazine-Interview|title=Frank Sinatra's February 1963 Playboy Magazine Interview|last=Hyams|first=Joe|date=February 1963|work=[[Playboy]]|access-date=August 19, 2014}}</ref> According to Kelley, he was critical of the church on numerous occasions, and had thought it hypocritical in Hoboken that Italians had to attend a different church from the Irish and Germans.{{Sfn|Kelley|1986|p=493}} Though turned off by organized religion at times, however, Sinatra had a deep faith that became public when he turned to the Catholic Church for healing after his mother died in a plane crash late in his career. He died as a practicing Catholic and had a Catholic burial.<ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.people.com/people/archive/article/0,,20125409,00.html|title=A Swinger with Swagger|work=People|access-date=August 17, 2015}}</ref>
==Cal Neva Lodge==
In 1960, Sinatra bought a share in the [[Cal Neva Lodge & Casino]], straddling the border between Nevada and California on the shores of [[Lake Tahoe]]. Though it only opened between June and September, Sinatra built the Celebrity Room theater, which attracted the likes of the other Rat Pack members, [[Red Skelton]], [[Marilyn Monroe]], [[Victor Borge]], [[Joe E. Lewis]], [[Lucille Ball]], [[Lena Horne]], Juliet Prowse, the [[McGuire Sisters]] and others. By 1962 he reportedly held a 50% share in the hotel.{{Sfn|Kelley|1986|pp=347-48, 355}} Sinatra's gambling license was temporarily stripped by the [[Nevada Gaming Control Board]] in 1963 after mobster Sam Giancana was spotted on the premises.<ref>{{cite web|last=Griffith |first=Martin |url=https://www.usatoday.com/travel/destinations/2010-03-31-lake-tahoe-rat-pack-casino_N.htm |title=Frank Sinatra's Lake Tahoe casino shuts down |work=USA Today |date=March 31, 2010 |access-date=July 26, 2015}}</ref> Due to ongoing pressure from the FBI and Nevada Gaming Commission and mobster control of casinos, and trouble with the [[American Mafia|Mafia]], Sinatra agreed to give up his share in Cal Neva and the Sands.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=362}}
==Alleged organized-crime links==
[[File:LuckyLucianoSmaller.jpeg|thumb|upright|Mugshot of mobster [[Lucky Luciano]] in 1936]]
Sinatra became the stereotype of the "tough [[working-class]] [[Italian American]]", something which he embraced. He commented that he would "probably have ended in a life of crime" if it had not been for his interest in music.{{sfn|McNally|2015|p=50}} According to one writer, [[Eddie Fisher (singer)|Eddie Fisher]] once remarked that Sinatra "wanted to be a hood" and had once told him that "I'd rather be a don of the [[American Mafia|Mafia]] than president of the United States". However, Peter Lawford had said that Sinatra only referred to them as the "boys" or "the Outfit", rather than the "Mafia".{{sfn|Kelley|1986|pp=294-5}}
In Sinatra's early days, mafia boss [[Willie Moretti]] helped him for kickbacks and was reported to have intervened in releasing him from his contract with Tommy Dorsey.{{sfn|Sifakis|2005|p=420}} Sinatra was present at the Mafia [[Havana Conference]] in 1946,{{sfn|Sifakis|2005|p=419}} and one newspaper published the headline "Shame, Sinatra" regarding his connection with [[Lucky Luciano]].{{sfn|Lahr|2000|p=63}} Kelley claims that [[Phyllis McGuire]] referred to [[Sam Giancana]] and Sinatra as the "best of friends", saying that they would often play golf together in Nevada and visit each other.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=296}} She also quotes Jo-Carrol Silvers in saying that both Sinatra and her husband [[Phil Silvers]] "adored [[Bugsy Siegel]] so much", and would boast to friends about him and how many people he had killed. She also claimed that Silvers had told her that "like Bugsy, Frank had a Mafia Redneck mentality", with their shared love of high-living and grandiose plans in Las Vegas.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|pp=124-5}} Kelley claims that Sinatra and mobster Joseph Fischetti had been good friends from 1938 onward, and acted like "Sicilian brothers".{{sfn|Kelley|1986|p=135}} She also states that Sinatra and Hank Sanicola were financial partners in the gossip magazine ''Hollywood Night Life'' with [[Mickey Cohen]], a West Coast mobster; she claims that Sinatra funded $15,000 into the magazine to "get back at Hollywood".{{Sfn|Kelley|1986|p=176}}
[[File:Bugsy Siegel.jpg|thumb|upright|right|Mugshot of [[Bugsy Siegel]] in 1928]]
The [[Federal Bureau of Investigation|FBI]] kept records amounting to 2,403 pages on Sinatra, becoming a natural target with his alleged Mafia ties, his ardent [[New Deal]] politics, and his friendship with [[John F. Kennedy]].<ref>{{cite web|url=https://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=1075739|title=Sinatra: The FBI Files|website=NPR.org|publisher=NPR|access-date=June 14, 2008}}</ref> They kept him under surveillance for almost five decades beginning in the 1940s. The documents include accounts of Sinatra as the target of death threats and [[extortion]] schemes.<ref>{{cite news|url=https://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/national/daily/march99/sinatra7.htm|title=AKA Frank Sinatra|publisher=The Washington Post Magazine|access-date=June 14, 2008|date=March 6, 1999}}</ref> The FBI documented that Sinatra was losing esteem with the Mafia as he grew closer to President Kennedy, whose brother Bobby was leading a crackdown on organized crime. They wiretapped Giancana's conversations, and found that Giancana no longer trusted Sinatra after he had been spotted with Kennedy.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|pp=327-9}} Their purported friendship finally came to an end in 1963 following the Nevada Gaming Commission's investigation into the casinos. According to Kelley, Giancana blamed Sinatra for the ordeal.{{sfn|Kelley|1986|pp=363-64}} However, it was acknowledged that Sinatra and Kennedy's friendship started becoming strained after Kennedy took office, in part because the Kennedy Administration, which included Bobby Kennedy as Attorney General, was very anti-Mafia.<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://www.history.com/news/robert-kennedy-started-the-war-on-mafia-gangs|title=How Bobby Kennedy Started the War on Gangs|first=Becky|last=Little|website=HISTORY|date=30 August 2018 }}</ref><ref>{{Cite web|url=https://www.irishcentral.com/culture/what-s-the-connection-between-john-f-kennedy-and-frank-sinatra|title=John F. Kennedy and Frank Sinatra connection explored|date=August 16, 2017|website=IrishCentral.com}}</ref> It was also acknowledged that their friendship also came to an end in 1962 after Sinatra's recent meeting with mobster [[Sam Giancana]] convinced Kennedy to cancel a visit to Sinatra's home while he visited Palm Springs and instead stay at the home of Bing Crosby, who was more willing to distance himself from the Mafia in public, despite also having mob ties.<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://www.desertsun.com/story/life/entertainment/2014/12/03/bing-crosby-mafia-associations/19820709/|title=Bing Crosby had his own associations with the mafia|first=Bruce|last=Fessier|website=The Desert Sun}}</ref><ref>{{cite news |title=Sinatra, snow storms, and a smashed-up helipad: the story behind John F Kennedy's star-studded inauguration |website=[[The Daily Telegraph]] |date=19 January 2017 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230217072344/https://www.telegraph.co.uk/music/artists/sinatra-snow-storms-smashed-up-helipad-story-behind-john-f-kennedys/ |archive-date=2023-02-17 |url-status=live |url=https://www.telegraph.co.uk/music/artists/sinatra-snow-storms-smashed-up-helipad-story-behind-john-f-kennedys/#:~:text=%E2%80%9CSinatra%20smashed%20up%20everything%20in,months%20of%20the%20inauguration%20gala. |last1=Vincent |first1=Alice }}</ref><ref>{{Cite web|url=https://www.biography.com/news/john-f-kennedy-frank-sinatra-friendship|title=Inside John F. Kennedy and Frank Sinatra's Powerful Friendship|first=Tim|last=Ott|website=Biography|date=19 May 2020 }}</ref>
The FBI's secret dossier on Sinatra was released in 1998 in response to [[Freedom of Information Act (United States)|Freedom of Information Act]] requests.{{sfn|Kaplan|2011|pp=446-7}} Sinatra frequently denied personal and professional links with [[organized crime]] figures such as Bugsy Siegel, [[Carlo Gambino]], Sam Giancana, Lucky Luciano, and Joseph Fischetti,<ref name=mafia>{{cite news|url=http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/special_report/1998/05/98/sinatra/94360.stm|title=Mafia reports dogged Sinatra|date=May 15, 1998|access-date=May 15, 2008|work=BBC News}}</ref> despite the many connections and anecdotes reported. He vehemently declared that "any report that I fraternised with goons or racketeers is a vicious lie".{{sfn|McNally|2015|p=49}} In January 1967, he stood before a Las Vegas grand jury investigating mobster influence in the casinos and denied any financial exploits with Giancana.{{sfn|McNally|2015|p=49}}
==References==
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===Sources===
* {{cite book|last=Kaplan|first=James|title=Frank: The Voice|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=6u-xXPue8O0C|year=2011|publisher=Anchor|isbn=978-0-7679-2423-8}}
* {{cite book|last=Kelley|first=Kitty|title=His Way: The Unauthorized Biography of Frank Sinatra|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=EnbzfyWuuL0C|year=1986|publisher=Bantam Books Trade Paperbacks|isbn=978-0-553-38618-9}}
* {{cite book|last=Lahr|first=John|title=Show and Tell: New Yorker Profiles|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=eU5dQKfpcpEC&pg=PA55|year=2000|publisher=University of California Press|isbn=978-0-520-23377-5}}
* {{cite book|last=Lees|first=Gene|title=Singers and the Song II|year=1998|publisher=Oxford University Press|isbn=978-0-19-511556-7}}
* {{cite book|last=McNally|first=Karen|title=When Frankie Went to Hollywood: Frank Sinatra and American Male Identity|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=erZCCQAAQBAJ&pg=PA49|date=June 12, 2015|publisher=University of Illinois Press|isbn=978-0-252-09820-8}}
* {{cite book|last=Rojek|first=Chris|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=F4DEdXSMYikC&pg=PA40|year=2004|publisher=Polity|title=Frank Sinatra|isbn=978-0-7456-3090-8}}
* {{cite book|last=Santopietro|first=Tom|title=Sinatra in Hollywood|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=-IrKI-foWcAC|date=November 11, 2008|publisher=St. Martin's Press|isbn=978-0-312-36226-3}}
* {{cite book | last=Sifakis | first=Carl | url=https://books.google.com/books?id=jgCpxTpPCPcC | title=The Mafia Encyclopedia | publisher=Infobase Publishing | isbn=978-0-8160-6989-7 | date=January 1, 2005 }}
* {{cite book|last=Sinatra|first=Nancy|title=Frank Sinatra, My Father|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=9EiE2i6i-PUC&pg=PA24|year=1986|publisher=Simon and Schuster|isbn=978-0-671-62508-5}}
* {{cite book|last1=Sinatra|first1=Tina|last2=Coplon|first2=Jeff|title=My Father's Daughter: A Memoir|year=2000|publisher=Simon & Schuster|location=New York|isbn=0-684-87076-2}}
* {{cite book|last1=Summers|first1=Anthony|last2=Swan|first2=Robbyn|title=Sinatra: The Life|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=R5SddF7R6x4C|date=2010|publisher=Transworld|isbn=978-1-4070-6890-9}}
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